I am not one to be critical of people. Really I am not. However, ever since I became a mommy people have found it necessary to give their parental advice. Now don't get me wrong I love to hear people. I love to hear their experiences but unwarranted advice is really not necessary. I find it interesting how it has become almost like a phenomenon. Really I feel like everywhere I go. I get unsolicited advice. Mind you I am glad to be accepted as a mother but at the same time it feels like I am always being judged. Now of course I am always going to be judged as Kiley's mother. I am going to be judged by her actions just like she is going to be judged by me. However, please don't tell me that it is not right that my little girl uses pacifiers, or that I prefer to give her the bottle.
While I am at it, is it really necessary to ask me about Kiley's mother. Hello that is me!! OK so am I the only going through this?
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I haven't gotten too much parenting advice but I do get asked about his mother. I understand what they mean so I politely say, "oh his birth mom (long pause) she is a wonderful....".
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